tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-112591222011-08-30T17:04:02.130-07:00Random thoughts on being a kinky, dominant, Pro Dominating, sex educating, BDSM and S/M lover, sexy, queer, mature, clean and sober woman with a very spiritual side. Oh ya, and I am a mom and a grandmother! WOW!Mistress Marryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01472196169228929395noreply@blogger.comBlogger231100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11259122.post-45935448041528626932009-02-20T19:56:00.000-08:002009-02-20T21:06:03.981-08:00

I just returned from an awesome BDSM conference in Edmonton, Canada and thought that I would write about My experience. Amazing, I am writing about an experience I had within a week of that experience rather than waiting for 6 or 8 months ;)Initially when I was invited to go to Lupercalia I really thought I would be packing for My new home in California so I did not make plans to go. Well, once I

Mistress Marryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01472196169228929395noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11259122.post-34085771220749717872009-02-01T00:35:00.000-08:002009-02-01T00:55:08.625-08:00

I just received some precious pictures from the hook pull that I did in August 2008 and it reminded Me that I hadn't blogged about it. This was an exercise in patience, going with the flow and trusting that our hosts knew what they were doing. Thankfully, this was the case as it was a very very long day but worth every second. For us, it was a drive across the border into Canada. The next morning

Mistress Marryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01472196169228929395noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11259122.post-38431642480470027522008-10-18T19:12:00.000-07:002008-10-18T23:35:04.265-07:00

Self Care: The act of truly caring for ones self as difficult as that may be on some days. It comes with honesty, speaking up, speaking out, follow through and some sort of movement. My life has been in a cycle of change and introspection lately. And I got to do an additional hook pull in August. I will report on that in another post to try to keep some semblance of it all making sense. My own

Mistress Marryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01472196169228929395noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11259122.post-83305374943984176682008-05-09T18:39:00.000-07:002008-12-09T03:36:07.617-08:00

Lets see..........what have I done since January you ask? Well, enough so that I haven't had time to blog AND do all the other sorts of fun, cool stuff that I get to do. Business has been sort of slow, which really wasn't that bad other than the financial burden it can place not having that lovely extra pocket change that My business brings in. I've taught a few classes, been to a few kink

Mistress Marryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01472196169228929395noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11259122.post-9849374055107609322008-01-30T22:31:00.000-08:002008-01-30T22:33:47.291-08:00

Extreme Sensations of the Boy Bits February 9th, 2008 from 1-3 at Lover's Lair in Everett Washington!Is that a little less scary than "Cock and Ball Torture"? I really do not like to use the word "torture" because of the emotion that it brings up for people. Rarely do I actually torture someone's bits!Would you like to learn how to safely get someone's attention by grabbing their package and

Mistress Marryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01472196169228929395noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11259122.post-67010028830143054542007-12-19T22:18:00.001-08:002008-12-09T03:36:07.784-08:00

Aw, who am I kidding? My life has been a continual whirlwind for the last month. Before I launch into what has been keeping Me so busy, I do want to talk about the Sagacity Conference in Victoria and another upcoming and exciting conference in February 08. So, Sagacity! Well, it was my first time travelling by ferry and going to Victoria. I don't know why I waited so long to get there! Lovely

Mistress Marryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01472196169228929395noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11259122.post-1280283295669091072007-11-11T22:33:00.000-08:002007-11-11T23:18:00.390-08:00

I'm home, My home changed while I was gone, and I had a great time in Victoria, BC. First, let Me describe one of those Trading Spaces moments that happened this weekend while I was away. This involves a minor confession: I am a disorganized mess. Well, My house is and always has been gently chaotic. I don't have time to organize, I suck at keeping it organized and I don't have time to train a

Mistress Marryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01472196169228929395noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11259122.post-49820054489320602162007-11-01T21:46:00.000-07:002007-11-01T22:00:11.114-07:00

Well, I've been saying this alot this week. Not sure why, but today really felt like a Friday. I have a pretty good weekend coming up.I have a dinner/play date with a very yummy person that I have had the hots for for about 6 months. We bonded over the "are we actually going to have an O on stage" at the Wicked Womyn Conference. It was on the last night that I actually told her that I would be

Mistress Marryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01472196169228929395noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11259122.post-56078075481369943652007-10-27T21:02:00.000-07:002007-10-27T21:14:48.404-07:00

I have a WishList in two different locations. One is posted at My website and the other was recently created at MetaWishList Not sure why those links are not working so here are the web pages you need to do your shopping:http://mistressmarry.com/Tributes/WishList/tabid/119/language/en-US/Default.aspxhttp://www.metawishlist.com/user/MistressMarry.aspxChristmas is coming and I am always asked "

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Well, all I can say is, if you are a womyn and you weren't there----why the hell not? And if you are a bio man----sorry buddy, this is girl play. Can you say amazing? Can we all say amazing? I'm not saying that just because I worked My tail off helping to plan this thing, I am saying it because its true. We got some very positive feedback from our "elders" who have been playing longer than you

Mistress Marryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01472196169228929395noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11259122.post-90758496331666428542007-10-24T21:54:00.000-07:002007-10-24T22:03:44.281-07:00

for picking people to date who are emotionally unavailable or just not interested in pursuing a "real" relationship. Everyone in the community seems to already have a primary partner or is "just dating" which translates into: I'm just hanging out with you until my true love walks through the door. Gee, thanks. Poly does NOT mean "I just want to fuck endlessly and don't really want to develop a

Mistress Marryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01472196169228929395noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11259122.post-36260464796088625292007-09-12T22:51:00.001-07:002008-12-09T03:36:08.294-08:00

Has it REALLY been more than a year since I've blogged? *sigh* Sorry folks, but I've just been super busy having a good time, working My ass off and playing really hard. I got guilty for not blogging cause I am dating this cute boi who has this awesome blog and dammit, I felt guilty for not being here and leaving a morsel to chew on. Shit..............I feel that I need more than guilt to keep Me

Mistress Marryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01472196169228929395noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11259122.post-1147929035853610712006-05-17T21:01:00.000-07:002006-05-17T22:10:35.896-07:00

WOW! Has it really been almost three months since My last post? I really need to get a better handle on this blogging thing. I only remembered the thing because someone posted a comment.Life has been very interesting between babes, bikes and business. Lets start with the sweetest first: The Babe. I met her just after I made My last entry in the blog. She wanted to learn about Domination and

Mistress Marryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01472196169228929395noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11259122.post-1141097444247945102006-02-27T18:44:00.000-08:002006-02-27T19:30:44.263-08:00

I just can't take it anymore! Ugh!!! This weather is just too too much for a California girl to handle. I am longing to feel the warmth of the sun, longer days and an opportunity to ride my new motorcycle or get out on that boat again!Motorcycle news: Its mine, and its sitting in a garage just begging Me to ride her. She is a Buell Blast, red, a 2000 and almost brand new. I first spotted her

Mistress Marryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01472196169228929395noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11259122.post-1138575247593060582006-01-29T14:38:00.000-08:002006-01-29T14:54:07.616-08:00

It is time to officially announce that Mistress Be and Myself have become partners and we have secured a great dungeon space affectionately called "The High Dungeon" It is also fondly referred to as B and B Studios............B&B standing for a variety of things..............most notably: Black and Blue.Yes, you can leave the studio w/o marks but what fun is that?Seriously, if there is a concern

Mistress Marryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01472196169228929395noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11259122.post-1134198321801288702005-12-09T22:47:00.000-08:002005-12-09T23:05:21.803-08:00

I have been getting more and more involved in needle play. I have moved from being a needle bottom to also being a needle Top. A very good friend of mine consented to be My stunt bottom (he is so good like that). That first needle that pierced his skin felt like a butter knife cutting through soft butta. It was an amazing feeling as the Top. I was hooked!For the next few weeks I asked everyone I

Mistress Marryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01472196169228929395noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11259122.post-1134197212236676422005-12-09T22:42:00.000-08:002005-12-09T22:46:52.236-08:00

So I have a friend. She is more than a friend. She has a boat and I spent the better part of My summer catching a very nice tan on her boat. We spent many hours on the weekends cruising around Lake Washington and Lake Union with many friends having water wars, eating really healthy and yummy food and working on our tans and wakeboarding. The Mistress has not attempted wakeboarding and probably

Mistress Marryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01472196169228929395noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11259122.post-1134196737650102702005-12-09T22:27:00.000-08:002005-12-09T22:40:21.310-08:00

Okay, so I am a little behind in posting to My blog. Sorry, its been very busy which I suppose is a very good thing.At the end of July I attended a somewhat infamous event called In The Woods. Its located in the foothills east of Bellingham at what can best be described as a very kinky campground. It is a kinkster's paradise! I had heard about ITW for many years but had never been able to attend.

Mistress Marryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01472196169228929395noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11259122.post-1119721301816505142005-06-25T10:30:00.000-07:002005-06-25T10:41:41.823-07:00

And a lot has been going on! I'm not even sure where to start.Tomorrow is My 51st birthday and I am reminded of last year's celebration for My 50th. I am also celebrating coming out as a Leather Woman and a Bisexual Leather Woman. I have met some incredible women recently and have been to quite a few events that were women only or women centered events.I went to the Queering Feminity Conference

Mistress Marryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01472196169228929395noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11259122.post-1111862340454870492005-03-26T10:13:00.000-08:002005-03-26T10:39:00.456-08:00

This winter has been some of the mildest and nicest weather we have had in the Northwest in recent memory. So much sun and so little rain. Everyone is running around worried to death that we are going to run out of water.................LOL. While I do believe we might have drought, I highly doubt this area could ever run out of water! At least not in My life time.So, My firecups came in and I

Mistress Marryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01472196169228929395noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11259122.post-1110953775329267832005-03-15T21:59:00.000-08:002005-03-15T22:19:20.180-08:00

Well, I haven't written because I have been doing tough duty on the beaches of southern california. Both My kids now live there and one was in treatment so I had to go check it out. He graduated while I was there and I was able to reconnect with a very old friend from the Palm Springs days when I got sober. It was a wild time. Most of the people that I was around were newly sober surfer dudes who

Mistress Marryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01472196169228929395noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11259122.post-1110096301615062182005-03-05T21:16:00.000-08:002005-03-06T00:05:01.620-08:00

Some friends and I were chatting the other night about choosing a BDSM Conference to go to sometime this year and they mentioned the Concerned Women of America .............a group I have never heard of. So, today I did some research on them. Their website is chock full of rhetoric and propaganda to slander just about any group that is not fully aligned with Christian values and the family.

Mistress Marryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01472196169228929395noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11259122.post-1110064441096469922005-03-05T15:11:00.000-08:002005-03-05T21:02:51.650-08:00

So I thought I might as well join the blog train. I'll be posting random thoughts, some of My more memorable experiences as a Pro Domme, some of Mistress Marry's sex education lessons--I really am a sex educator and other interesting (hopefully) stuff. A lot of what you will find here will include My personal BDSM Philosophy, those practices that interest Me and probably some information about My

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