Its raining and fire cups

This winter has been some of the mildest and nicest weather we have had in the Northwest in recent memory. So much sun and so little rain. Everyone is running around worried to death that we are going to run out of water.................LOL. While I do believe we might have drought, I highly doubt this area could ever run out of water! At least not in My life time.

So, My firecups came in and I was so excited to try them out that I tried them on Myself first. This is something every wise Dominant will do and should do anyway. I firmly believe in trying things out on Myself if at all possible.

Now, My friend Brenda took that to a new height the other day. We had done a mini workshop on sounds and we both loved it of course. She then did it on a few boys but just didn't feel all that comfy about it because she hadn't tried it on herself and wanted to know what the boys were feeling. Well, god bless the little Domme! She actually did a scene with herself using her sounds! If you don't know what sounds are, here is a link on what they look like and how to use them. The boys we have tried it on usually find it to be a very interesting feeling...........it does not hurt.

http://www.medicaltoys.com/lib-soundplay.htm
http://www.medicaltoys.com/sounds.htm

She also said they didn't hurt.

So, back to the firecups. I took the cups to Portland to try them out on My little dumpling because she has the greatest set of tits and nipples and I just love torturing them. Well, to make a long story short, we had a fabulous scene where I tortured her titties but good, including use of the firecups which she didn't care for. One of her nips started to milk and that was the one that she politely asked Me to take this damn thing off of her! We are still working on the concept of pleasing the Mistress even if you don't like what she's doing to you at the moment. Other than that little disappointment, she did very well in our first scene where I really pushed her. Her breasts were just a lovely assortment of colored bruises and I am also teaching her to want and enjoy bruising. It is such a lovely reminder of the scene that you both had and a reminder of how much the bottom took which should put a bottom back into la-la land, if only for a moment.

I'm back from california

Well, I haven't written because I have been doing tough duty on the beaches of southern california. Both My kids now live there and one was in treatment so I had to go check it out. He graduated while I was there and I was able to reconnect with a very old friend from the Palm Springs days when I got sober. It was a wild time. Most of the people that I was around were newly sober surfer dudes who spent way too much time slammin dope and surfing. It shows in their skin and their outlook on life. They are all sober, thank God. I'd hate to see this crew on a run.

So, it was good to take a break. I worked so many g.d. hours doing the Pro Domme thing I began to wonder if it was all worth it. I had to raise a lot of money to help pay for the kid's treatment and I'd certainly do it again, but I like doing this work when I want to..........not because I have to. Things take on a different perspective when you HAVE to do it. It started to not be fun. It started to be somewhat routine. Thank goodness for the great clients who make it all worthwhile to do.

Part of what keeps it interesting is new toys. No new toys for the Mistress in many months and so I have already made up for lost time and purchased fire cups.............used in Eastern Medicine for healing but they can also be used on body parts that were not traditionally targeted by eastern docs......................*evil grin* I can hardly wait to use them on a nice set of tits and I have a certain set in mind. Just watching the nipples get sucked up into the cups from the heat is a total turn on for Me. Of course, I have had it done and so I know exactly what she will be feeling as I do it. I also just ordered a dragon tongue. If you don't know what one is here is a link:

http://www.wian-studios.com/singletails.html

Its the purple one and I got the last one she had in stock. If you are looking for really good quality floggers and other wicked toys.................check out this site. They do such nice work that it makes it worth the didge you will be spending.

Next on the agenda is an upper endoscopy tomorrow to find out what the hell is up with My esophagus which has been flaring up big time. Then next week I have some minor foot surgery coming up. I guess I won't be wearing My stilettos for a few weeks ;(

CWA and NCSF

Some friends and I were chatting the other night about choosing a BDSM Conference to go to sometime this year and they mentioned the Concerned Women of America .............a group I have never heard of. So, today I did some research on them. Their website is chock full of rhetoric and propaganda to slander just about any group that is not fully aligned with Christian values and the family.

Particularly concerning has been their ability to halt some great BDSM Conferences by putting pressure on the host hotel chain. Unfortunately, its worked in some cases. Most ammusing are their undercover reports of some conferences that they attended that not only promoted BDSM--"sadomasochistic perversions" but also homosexuality.............heavens to betsy!

Rather that allowing people to choose how they want to express their love, their sexuality, and yes, even their perversions, this group of concerned ladies wants to clamp down on everything and anything that might be outside of boring, missionary sex within marriage...........*gag*

What I find funny is that while their "undercover" reporter, who went to a conference, was appalled at some of what she saw and heard, she gave great reviews of some of the workshops and made Me sad that I was unable to attend. Its unfortunate that she decided not to go to the Dungeon Party that night because now I don't know what great scenes happened!

Here is an interesting post they made about the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom: Great Press! I'll be joining the NCSF ASAP!

"Activists with the NCSF, with its headquarters just off K Street in downtown Washington, D.C., are crisscrossing the country, meeting with police departments to “educate” them on why they should not make arrests at violent, sadomasochistic “play parties” — often held in basement “dungeons” — because the activity is “consensual.”
NCSF now works closely with leading homosexual and “transgender” groups including the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) — which is helping it craft a winning media message — the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, and GenderPAC. NCSF hopes to piggyback on the success of the “gay rights” movement to mainstream S&M and other perversions, or at least the “right” to engage in them.
USES ‘FREEDOM’ RHETORICLike the pornographers that it defends, the NCSF uses all-American language to promote its cause.
Just as pornographers use the First Amendment to defend the sale of porn, NCSF hopes to expand the realm of “free speech” to other “sexual areas,” including “sex enterprises, sexual-purpose clubs and educational and social groups.” If they succeed, it would limit the ability of citizens to keep sex clubs catering to sadomasochists, “swingers’” or other perversions out of their neighborhood and away from their children.
According to its Web site, NCSF describes itself as:
a national organization committed to protecting freedom of expression among consenting adults. Based in Washington, D.C., NCSF works through legal initiatives, lobbying, outreach, and education to promote greater understanding of sexuality and human rights. Founded in 1997, NCSF mobilizes diverse grassroots communities to help change antiquated and unfair sex laws, and to protect free speech and advance privacy rights. NCSF is dedicated to ensuring that all consenting adults can express their sexuality freely and openly, without fear.
Among its constituencies, NCSF lists sadomasochists, “transgenders,” transsexuals, intersex (people born with atypical sexual anatomies), “swingers” (e.g., married couples who exchange spouses at sex parties), and “polyamorists” (people who engage in multiple, simultaneous sexual relationships).
http://www.ncsfreedom.org/

Everybody's Doing It!

So I thought I might as well join the blog train. I'll be posting random thoughts, some of My more memorable experiences as a Pro Domme, some of Mistress Marry's sex education lessons--I really am a sex educator and other interesting (hopefully) stuff.
A lot of what you will find here will include My personal BDSM Philosophy, those practices that interest Me and probably some information about My personal life. I'll be very happy to explain things and answer questions for the curious and the interested.