Lupercalia 2009

I just returned from an awesome BDSM conference in Edmonton, Canada and thought that I would write about My experience. Amazing, I am writing about an experience I had within a week of that experience rather than waiting for 6 or 8 months ;)
Initially when I was invited to go to Lupercalia I really thought I would be packing for My new home in California so I did not make plans to go. Well, once I realized that I was not moving to California as quickly as I thought, then the idea of attending Lupercalia really started to form in My brain.
Thanks to some additional prodding and poking by the Luper Team and the folks who had gone previously, I decided that I needed to go check out this notorious conference. And I am so glad that I did.

As a conference organizer its always good to go to other conferences to see how they do it and to steal good ideas. Thanks to the Luper Team I felt like a Diva the entire weekend even though I was not a presenter. I got to hang out with several of the presenters and people were thoughtful enough to make sure I was included in the happenings. One of the goodies that happened was that I was Louise's date for the Saturday nite dinner. A very hot Leather Dyke that I had been hoping to spend some time with. (Thanks Jim for arranging that). Dinner was great and I got to meet Laura Antoniou and her lovely partner. Funny how half the people at our table work in Social Services/Social Work in their real lives.

Okay, so back up to Friday night for a moment. I am still twitterpaited by My date and later play with Louise so I am trying to stay on track here!

Because I did not spend much time attending social events in high school or college, I had never attended a Toga Party before. I took the easy way out and rented a costume. I just could not see how wrapping Myself in a bed sheet would look all that sexy. I've posted a pic of the top half of my outfit. It was comfy and sexy at the same time. The "marketplace" was full of Kinky Games and My job was to have people place as many clothespins on a stuffed bear named Oscar as one could place in 30 seconds. Amazing how many submissives really could not do this until I assured them I would take Oscar the teddy bear back to My room for appropriate aftercare. The winning number of clothes pins was 24 in 30 seconds. Not bad!

There was a yummy fashion show and a wonderful hook suspension with Rowan, Elwood and Louise. I've seen this before and its still mesmerizing to Me. After the suspension, I stopped into their room to offer some aftercare and nuzzling before I went to bed with Oscar.

Saturday was full of great workshops. One in particular that I have to comment on. I've been to lots of needle workshops and workshops that included blood but I had never been to a workshop with FifthAngel. He is infamous in the community so I was excited to see his class. I learned a whole new way to introduce blood into My play and I can't wait to try out the new techniques that I learned. There was a moment, I have to admit, where I thought I might just pass out.....and I am a blood LOVER! Anyone that can do that to Me has My respect and admiration!

Saturday night's play party started with the usual Dyke cocksucking but because there were rules regarding "no insertion in the dungeon" we had to be careful not to get our hosts into trouble ;)...honestly, tell a Leather Dyke that she can't do something and its just going to cause all sorts of rebellious thoughts and behaviors! HA! Inspite of the rule we had some fun in the dungeon. Louise and I co-topped Rowan and Estrellada with knives, police gloves, single tails, dragon's tongue and boots. It was sexy, edgy, spontaneous and hot. Then we took the party to My room ;).....nope, not gonna tell!

Sunday I went to a lovely brunch, schmoozed with people, talked up Wicked Womyn 2009 and went back to My room for some much needed down time. It meant that I had to miss a couple of workshops but I knew I had an intense scene coming up in the evening so I had to rest. Sunday evening, after a quiet dinner in My room, I was pierced with hooks by Elwood and then he threw Me to the Lesbians. Damn, I just hate when that happens.........LOL. It was a very intense scene and My apologies if I was the loudest one in the dungeon for the duration of the scene. I had some shit to get out ;)and thats why I am an intense player. Psychology in the dungeon? Bring it on......thats why I am a switch!

My most tender moment had to be the next morning when I knocked on Louise's door and she and Estrellada just very quietly removed all of My clothing and put Me in bed between the two of them. Next, Rowan joined us so there were four naked, gorgeous women in bed.

The most priceless moment: the look on Elwood's face when he came into the room and saw four naked women in bed.

My thanks to the Lupercalia Team for taking such good care of Me and the rest of their guests. Can I have more, please?

Wicked Womyn Report

Well, all I can say is, if you are a womyn and you weren't there----why the hell not? And if you are a bio man----sorry buddy, this is girl play.

Can you say amazing? Can we all say amazing? I'm not saying that just because I worked My tail off helping to plan this thing, I am saying it because its true. We got some very positive feedback from our "elders" who have been playing longer than you and I have been around. Our "Old Guard" as we call it in the kink community.

Personally, I was in charge of Hospitality and we wowed 'em. I had a super crew helping Me out in the kitchen and at the information desk back at the hotel. I'd say the only thing that didn't really work out was the transportation back to the hotel. There was no easy way to accomplish getting 200 women, their toy bags and their submissives back to their hotel at 2am. I tried to arrange for shuttles and taxi's but it just sort of fell apart. Everyone seemed to survive the 1 block walk and thankfully there was no rain or cold weather for the entire weekend.

My pirate costume was great! I ended up with two pirate hats and only wore one. I found these adorable black and white striped hose at target for about 4 bucks, a pair of capri pants with buttons on the cuffs, my biker boots, my pirate hat and my old Renn bodice and a shirt that I found at Old Navy for six bucks. The final pirate hat that I found at the costume store was 12 bucks so I got off cheap for the pirate outfit. However, I did find a corset that I fell in love with and had to have! Its made of raw silk and has purple and fushia panels and when I tried it on, everyone in the room agreed that it looked like it was made for Me. I got a great deal on it and I'll take a picture of it the next time I wear it. If you want Me to wear it during our session, just make the request and you can help the Mistress put it on.

I didn't get to play that much so when I did, I did it up right. I played with a lovely couple who were here from Portland and we had a grand time. They took care of the Mistress alright ;)That was Saturday night......after the entertainment.

On Sunday evening I did a little needle scene with a lovely young lady and we had fun. I had glued some little Ninja Men from Archie McPhee's into the hubs so they looked like they were crawling up her breasts. I also did some black and red feathers in her breast tissue. It was her second play piercing scene and she took 24 needles. She should be proud! I flogged and spanked a couple of people but I had purposely left My dance card pretty wide open anticipating being very busy with Hospitality but available for some impromptu scenes. And that is exactly what happened Sunday night.

One of My good friends asked Me if I'd be interested in taking an absurd amount of needles in a very quick and dirty fashion. This has become somewhat of a Wicked Womyn tradition. Last year, this friend took 400 needles and we pulled them all out at once. Of course, being the dedicated volunteer that I am, I jumped at the chance and we proceeded to negotiate the scene. It would be somewhere between 200 and 3oo needles, administered by 3 delicious women in the shortest amount of time. I mean, they timed it.

I got myself as mentally prepared as I could, it was the last night of the conference and I thought, what the hell, why not! After having an orgasm on stage the night before, there wasn't much I wouldn't be willing to try. I will NOT eat weird looking, alive bugs for My tribe though. Thats a limit for Me.

So, they began. Using 25g, 23g, and 22g it wasn't half bad. Then we ran out of the smaller gauge needles and they began using 20g. And for some reason the last few times that I've done piercing My left breast area is just angry and much more uncomfortable than the right side. True to that, when she started poking Me with the 20's on the left side, well, I was doing a lot of outloud processing. What that means is that I was yelling, growling, crying, squeezing My butt cheeks and anything else to get through it. Needles were going in My back, My arms and My chest/breast tissue all at once. I had to take a slight break and they stopped the clock. I had some OJ, rearranged My head space and told them they could continue. It was getting tougher and tougher. Finally she said "okay, five more each and she's done." During those 15 needles (5 needles X 3 people) I had to really reach down into My core to handle it and I cut loose with some pretty intense guttural responses and tears that I am not sure where they came from.

We ended up with 256 needles in 20 minutes. I MADE them count each one. Once they were in and I had a moment to survey the situation and My surroundings, I realized just how gorked out I was on Endorphins, and hey, we still have to pull them all out. So then began the discussion of taking them out. I'm a bleeder and My friend knows I am a very heavy bottom and I get off on her twisting and turning the needles before she pulls them out. She wanted to do two twists and then pull them out by the handfulls. Six hands grabbing all the needles they can, twisting them and then pulling them out was quite the experience. I'm told that the blood spurting all at once was an incredible sight. I can only imagine because it dropped Me to My knees.

It took about a week to recover from that scene and Wicked Womyn in general but I still have some bruises and its been two weeks. Like any good bottom, I like to admire My bruises. Reminds Me that I was a warrior, if only for 20 minutes.